Dangers of dating the boss
Look beyond the physical act of sex with your boss and you'll see that power is at the heart of the relationship.
Writing for the Times Online, Susie Godson sums it up as "a power trip" and "a huge ego boost" and adds, "Peel away the perks and what exactly are you left with?
But when you're involved with the boss, you may find your competence in question.
Opportunities that come your way, successes you achieve, goals you meet and exceed -- all may be perceived as arising out of your special relationship with the boss and not your own hard work. And if you end up working for someone else in the same company, that person may be reluctant to believe that you've gotten to where you are based on merit alone.
Many companies have clear policies on office dating and while relationships between co-workers have become commonplace, an employee's affair with the boss still continues to be frowned upon.
Even if it turns into something serious and long-lasting, chances are one of you will have to go.
Stop and ask yourself: If he wasn't your boss, would you still be attracted to him?
Are the excitement and passion based on the fact that although he has control over your life and career, you feel like you have control over him?
And since work continues to be the main way in which we meet, socialize with, and get to know people, that would shut the door to many opportunities, both platonic and romantic.Do you think that if you sleep with him, he'll fast-track you to the top or at least promote you or give you a raise?Or do you just like the buzz that follows you around the workplace because co-workers sense that there's something more to your relationship than supervisor and subordinate? You may have been hired because of your skills, your experience, your talent, drive, and enthusiasm.It happens all the time and could be because people spend the majority of their time at work, so the attachments to people who are there can become much deeper.Power and authority can also make someone seem much more attractive – most people had a crush on a teacher when they were at school but never followed it through because they knew it was not allowed.